Why You Never Ready

Why You Never Ready
Krystin Hargrove - Be Loud Be You Blog

For as long as you took you better look like Halle Berry, or Beyonceeeeeee, shit then we gettin married. Thank you Jay thank you, finally a man who get’s why the eff we take so long HA!

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Men be playing, like if you want me dressed to the nines, have several seats and wait! But this verse is a great play on words, Jay is low key saying if you wanna marry your “Beyonce” it’s gonna take some time boo boo. Like no BS tho, I refuse to get married prematurely. Mainly because I’m the crazy woman who takes those vows seriously, future husband it’s till DEATH do us part LOL. Hopefully that’ll be due to natural causes cause I don’t wanna got to jail <- that was humor people, however hubby will be very aware of this, he'll know what he's getting into, my level of crazy will suit him.

Like all my friends are married now and they’re on my back about getting married. I’m like chill women chill, if I’m not worried why the hell are you? I love you guys, I really do love them, I got all riders on my team! THEY.WILL.COME.FOR.YOU. But trust me marriage is something I think about all the time these days. I’m still not in a rush to do it. Thinking about it is one thing, but I actually don’t worry about it at all. I’m a firm believer that the man I marry will be my life partner. I’m also a firm believer in not rushing that and letting God do his work.

Krystin Hargrove - Be Loud Be You Blog
Krystin Hargrove - Be Loud Be You Blog

But all in all there's a reason I’m not married, I’m not suppose to be yet. It’s funny to see people's reaction to me talking about my kids, I have 2 of them and 2 baby daddies (for lack of better words lol) My kids are everything and they have two great fathers who work in partnership with me to raise them. Which is beautiful, we navigate through bumps in the road together and are smooth sailing in partnership with each other outside of those bumps. And by bumps I mean making sure our kids are on the right track, as parents know, kids these days have a lot to deal with.

I’ve had people tell me to marry both of them (at different times of course lol) but I don’t believe in getting married because you have children or in my case because I’m on baby daddy number 2. Hell I’ll add a third if I have to! I’m kidding in reality but truthful in principal. A certain foundation has to be laid that future husband and I have confidence in each other to get through anything. Yes love is important but not the end all be all, well for me/us. That “anything” I’m referring to includes how we ourselves change and grow as people. Our ability to relearn each other and not let love diminish but be the driver that keeps us excited about it. So essentially we’ll be falling in love with a new person at least a few times in our marriage ha! Variety is the spice of life when you think about things along those lines, I’m so damn crazy future husband will never get bored. That I know! So when asked about marriage, I reply, “be easyyyyy I’m taking my time.”

Krystin Hargrove - Be Loud Be You Blog

What the hell does all this have to do with anything? I don’t know but it’s what I wanted to write about, so I did. In other news, I found this amazing jacket and belt pictured here thrifting. I mean when you have this hanging in your closet, it takes no time getting ready. I’m the one waiting on his ass to pick an outfit. That’s the beauty of a statement piece. I think my sister sent me these vintage 501’s, my bag is also vintage from my fav vintage shop in Paris! I thrifted my necklace years ago and grabbed these BCBG shoes, on sale for next to nothing, a few years back as well (In case you were wondering). I’m also digging this hair, right now at least, yet also thinking about changing it. The struggle of my life, my brain moves a mile a minute, yall pray for future husband. I can be calm like the wind, then a damn tornado in the blink of an eye HA!

That’s all I got today. Ok bye.